Not long ago I went on the web in a chatroom which includes 50-something women and asked all of them some over 50 matchmaking concerns.

A number of their particular responses amazed me and could shock you, I have altered the brands to protect the simple, nevertheless the words all are theirs! This is actually the firstly a three component blog on fecouple seeking males over 50 relationship.

What are the most significant attributes you look for in a guy?

Pam: appropriate prices and character initially. Appropriate-looking age. (I absolutely carry out hate getting considered my personal day’s girl.) Sufficient cash that individuals can go sporadically – a good work.

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Cindy: You will find 3 components we seek out. a spiritual hookup, Emotional connection and physic connection. Easily link on all 3 of those… the biochemistry is actually amazing.

Kat: in my situation the top my list usually he has having a personal commitment with Jesus and this must be more critical than their union beside me.

Sherry: I have found that as I familiarize yourself with some body better, they be a little more appealing to me personally. But i’d like somebody I’m interested in, that is interested in me personally. Some body with similar key values and character. Some one with an equivalent task degree. Someone who has addressed his past and is also trying to the near future. A person who i could spend playtime with. And much, I haven’t discovered him.

What exactly do you wish that 50+ males realized about 50+ women?

Cindy: My personal intend would be that women or men would understand that not every one of others men or women out here that are single, are just like the wife they thought we would divorce. I do believe too many men and women of all ages have actually a significant amount of luggage. I feel that some men are so afraid of becoming hurt or being, they worry it again.

Pam: they want to spend some time to cure prior to trying currently once more. I believe that generally they simply take something said in innocence inappropriate, through the filter regarding past relationships. The widowers I’ve outdated have acquired dilemmas letting get of the first spouses, and experience comfortable internet dating some one once again.

Sherry: The guys better awaken as they get older …there are not a lot of time to find and find…they want to speed-up. We-all put up a guard…but at all of our get older …we have to take chances again…if one desires end up being with somebody and start to become delighted.

Cindy: I form of doubt many men inside my generation will marry again. I do believe they want too. I think a lot of think they will have too much to lose or they fear getting hurt. The past 2 guys we dated had been divorced over twenty years back.

Pam: Right now, I’d just like getting a sweetheart again. We have perhaps not got a boyfriend this 100 years.

Cindy: the past one I dated was very sensitive to every thing. I decided I found myself taking walks on ice to prevent offending him. I love life and I like to laugh and joke around. When a guy will not learn how to do that… the bye-bye sweetie.

Pam: Yeah, Cin…. one previous widower we dated, we took place to state anything, referring to my self. that he went ballistic over because he would been teased about that as a kid. It absolutely was alright before after that, went down hill like a landslide from that moment on.